Autism
Description: The world I envisioned for my son
Charity: autismspeaks
Author: Kimberly Garde
Credits: Our Family, Five for Fighting
Views: 2150
Posted: 4/30/07 1:49 PM
Tags:
aspergers autism autismspeaks autistic pdd-nos speaks spectrum
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Kim,
Your video is incrediably touching. I am so thankful to know you and discover what a wonderful mother you are!
Amie
posted by Amie Clarke on 8/11/07 4:00: PM
Cindy Morris, thanks for asking. We did a program called Sensory Learning, and we also participated in a medical study on the use of Hyperbaric Oxygen Chambers in children with autism. In my opinion, for my son, Sensory Learning made a world of difference. You can do an Internet search to find places that offer Sensory Learning. I prefer Sensory Learning over Hyperbaric Oxygen Chambers because Sensory Learning is a one-time treatment whereas Hyperbaric Oxygen Chambers are ongoing. With the schedules our kiddos usually have, it is hard to fit in enough time for the Oxygen treatment!
posted by Kimberly on 6/25/07 9:22: PM
I cried while I watched your son do the exact same things my 8 year old son does. Watching the wheels of his cars and not wanting to get off the rides at the amusement park, etc. I do not have him in the therapies (Sensory or oxygen)that you showed. Can you tell me about these?
posted by Cindy Morris on 6/21/07 6:28: AM
Kim,
I have watched you from a baby, through out your teenage years, to become an articulate, intelligent, compassionate woman and wonderful mother. Aiden could not have a better mother and advocate than you. You have shown great tenacity and determination as you have researched, begged, and prodded every step of this journey to secure the best opportunities for Aiden. When I forwarded this email, it touched the hearts of many. One of my friends, a high school Psychology teacher, used your video in a lesson plan, her classes were incredibly touched and forever changed. She was able to give facts and figures along with your video to explain this epidemic would touch them personally. Many students knew nothing about Austim. The number of children diagnosed with Austim continues to rise and the only hope is early intervention and researching for a cure. Your video has had long reaching effects for good. Cliff and I love you dearly and are so very, very proud of you.
posted by Aunt Cindy on 6/16/07 10:53: AM
Kimberly, I was so touched by your video. I can relate to your feelings of loss, as can anyone with a heart. It's so obvious that you love & adore & care for your son without reservation. I have two grandsons that are on the autism spectrum. You want them to be able to tell you when they have a tummy ache or a tooth ache, to be able to hear them say, "wuv you mommy" or "I got to pee!", & to help them feel socially accepted & one day be able to live independantly. It is important to spread awareness about autism & how it truly affects families--and it doesn't affect every family the same way, because for as much as these children have in common, they have just as many differences. And so do their families, circumstances, & access to treatments and therapies. "Judge not," is as good of advice now as it was when it was recorded in Matthew 7: 1 of the New Testament. Perhaps "anonymous" should read the Bible. Grammy Pammy of "Our Boys, Our Purpose"
posted by Grammy Pammy on 5/30/07 1:49: PM
Kim,
What a BEAUTIFUL Boy you have!! And a Beautiful FAMILY too!! Watching your video took my breath away!! Of course I was also wiping the tears away too!
I'm sorry I don't keep in better touch! I'll send you a privite e-mail on MySpace!
I LOVE YOU SWEETIE!! I'm sooooo very PROUD of you!
LOTSSS of HUGSSS & LOVE!! STEFFIE
posted by Steffie on 5/24/07 7:42: PM
I have always admired your strength and determination with all that you do. Now I can honestly say that I admire you as well as Aiden. I know how hard it is to focus on a family of 5 with so much going on. But you are setting the stepping stone in getting the awareness out there...you share your life, pain and Aiden's as well. It takes a lot of work to do what you did. Congrats to you for the dedication and time it took you to do this and to Aiden who's love for his family keeps him workin hard all day. Much Love!
posted by Mandy on 5/24/07 11:39: AM
Kim,
What can I say? I feel like I'm a small part of your family. I am also very confident that Aiden will achieve more than you ever thought or could hope for, especially with the amazing family that he has been gifted with. Aiden is a rare treasure with different hurdles to jump over and jump he will!!! God Bless you and your family!
Cyndy Faucher
posted by Cyndy Faucher on 5/20/07 3:14: PM
Kim, What an amazing job you've done both with the video and with your son. From watching your video I would know alot about your son even if I did not know him personally. The one thing that is most obvious is that he certainly is loved!!
posted by Sandi on 5/19/07 6:46: AM
Kim, I found your video very touching.I have a friend who's daughter has a son with autism and will foward this video on to her to view. Great job! May God Bless you and your family and I wish that one day they can do more for children with autism.
posted by Carol Koeller on 5/11/07 11:44: AM
That was really a wonderful video. My son is autistic too. He is 12 now and was adopted from Russia when he was two months old. He is my greatest joy and my greatest sorrow.
Thank you,
Amy
posted by Amy Palmasano on 5/08/07 12:43: PM
Kim, You know your son Aidan so well. I can tell he is very loved. All your comments hit home with me because my little boy reminds me so much of Aidan. I love watching your video because it inspires me to keep going each day. There are just so many times when it is a struggle just to get through an afternoon. I just have to keep reminding myself one day at a time. I appreciate you sharing your family moments with the world. Your video is inspirational. Thank you and good luck.
posted by Beverly on 5/06/07 6:22: PM
Kim,
You did an excellent job of answering the question, "What kind of world do YOU want?". I'm so happy you made this video to raise money for autism awareness!
posted by Jennifer on 5/05/07 10:20: PM
Hi Kim I have a 8 year old son who is so many ways reminds me of your child it was almost like you were living in my home. Jacob has autism also started school at 3 etc. Its nice to know that were not alone with this but at the same time I wished with all my heart that no other parent had to fell the way I do. You know they are all so different but so alike in so many ways. And are they not all such BEAUTIFUL Children a very touching video thank you sharing. I wish you and your family the Best
Sincerely Dianna NC
posted by Dianna on 5/05/07 3:59: PM
Kim, what a fabulous video! My son was diagnosed with Asperger's last September when he turned four, and I have wished for SO MANY of the same things for him that you wish for your son. Interestingly enough, my son was diagnosed as MSPI (Milk & Soy Protein Intolerant) at 18 months. The last time we "milk challenged" him, he didn't reacted physically, but his Asperger's symptoms intensified. I wish the very best for you & your family.
posted by Sarah in Lincoln, NE on 5/04/07 10:10: AM
Mary Beth, we knew before he was 2. He is our youngest child - the little girl is my niece. I do worry about subsequent children having autism but I don't know if genetic screening would help since the exact cause is still unknown. I'd be much better equipped to handle it in future children, and I'd probably detect it sooner. But I do still worry.
posted by Kimberly on 5/04/07 9:42: AM
When did you first suspect the autism and were you scared to have another child after your son?
Did you seek out genetic counseling?
Your son is absolutely gorgeous. I hope he continues to progress and grow in your families love and care.
posted by Mary Beth on 5/03/07 1:57: PM
Kim I just loved your video. You did a great job. I have forwarded it all of my friends. Aiden has come a long way thanks to you and all you do for him
posted by Mindi on 5/03/07 12:02: PM
Kim, Your video is wonderful. Thanks! We love you all!!!!!!!!! Cindy
posted by Cindy on 5/03/07 6:22: AM

I thought this was a wonderful view into your life. It has helped my son watching these videos, to see that he is not the only one who has autism.
posted by Christy ~ Meet our Chris on 1/23/08 4:10: PM