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Thanks for sharing this amazing video of Jake. He has the most beautiful eyes. Jake is very lucky for having you as his parents. I also have a 4 year old boy with Autism. Jake reminds me of him in alot of ways. His eyes and his smile. I know how difficult it is. I haven't stopped crying since the time my son was diagnosed at the age of 2 1/2. Everyday is a struggle. Stay strong and positive. Together we'll find the cure. Liz from Toronto Canada
posted by liz on 2/02/08 8:55: PM

your beautiful little boy reminded me so much of mine, who's name is Andrew or "Drew". they both have dark hair and eyes and yes, autism. Andt most importantly -US. The parents who love them no matter what and are their voice when they cant use their own. My son was born on my birthday which give me the feeling of an extra special bond beyond what I expected. I can feel what he is feeling sometimes even when he cant express it, and i see you have that too... Bless you and your family
posted by jen on 1/27/08 8:54: PM

Thank you for the beautiful video.
posted by Bill on 1/23/08 9:12: AM

I'll bet your love feels like home to Jake every day. Thank you for sharing. Peace & Love.
posted by stefanie on 1/23/08 7:08: AM

God Bless!!
posted by Jackie Hughes on 1/23/08 6:22: AM

May the Lord give all of you peace and may this be the year He sends a cure. God is with all of you.
posted by Josephine on 1/23/08 3:38: AM

I love you too, and I want you to come back soon. With the help from this site, I hope many get the early help they need.
posted by Kathryn Edwards on 1/22/08 9:51: PM

It is obvious how much you love your son. He is blessed to be your child. I am a teacher and I can't believe how many more children with autism we are seeing every year. I know it can be exhausting to have to advocate for him and fight insurance companies on top of all the other responsibilities of having a child with autism. May God give you the strength to continue to fight for all that your son deserves.
posted by Kari on 1/22/08 7:58: PM

I've viewed these videos and read many of the comments. I know I can't even imagine the longing and heartbreak the parents must feel, and the frustration and loneliness the children suffer. My friend's son is autistic w/ sensory process disorder. His pediatrician kept putting off her concerns, even though daycare and preschool providers were voicing their concerns as early as the age of 2. Now, at the age of 4, this same pediatrician has finally admitted something is amiss. Her son finally began intensive therapy at the age of 4. Just two months later: what a difference. My other friend's twins were thankfully diagnosed early and, through the March of Dimes, began receiving intensive therapy up through Kindergarten. What a huge step forward for them! They are now in second grade and mainstreamed, with special ed services, and doing incredibly well! I wish this for all who are boxed in by autism. Go with your gut! Do not let the pediatricians delay that most-necessary early intervention! Believe in yourself, and the fact that no one knows your child like you do. God bless.
posted by Robin on 1/22/08 12:58: PM

Jake is a beautiful young boy who is so lucky to have you as his parents and to give him so much love. Love is life so keep is going. You and your family are in my prayers.
posted by Cindy on 1/22/08 10:10: AM

This was so beautiful.Your son is such a handsome boy.My heart goes out to you.I have a special needs daughter,that I adopted.I know that even when the days get very hard,there is always a blessing there too.Your entire family is in my prayers..God Bless!!!
posted by phyllis on 1/19/08 9:45: PM

What a beautiful boy. I know how you feel I feel the same way. I have two boys on the spectrum and am waiting for them to come home to me as well. Lots of love Denise
posted by Denise Diese on 1/18/08 7:34: PM

What a beautiful boy. My 6 year old Jett has PDD & he is a blessing. Great job - God Bless
posted by Joe P on 1/17/08 4:57: PM

thank you ...
posted by KARI SMITH on 1/17/08 9:15: AM

What a great video... What a beautiful young man your Jake is!! He reminds me so much of our Ricky. Keep the faith, and know that our prayers are with Jake and every asd child to come home.
posted by Rick Bub on 1/17/08 8:23: AM

I could see my son who is an Autistic 8 year old in the video of your son. So many things reminded me of him. I wish you and your family the best and will be in my prayers.
posted by Kristi on 1/17/08 6:22: AM

I do not have a child and have no idea what all of you are going thru but I think it is imporant that I try and understand. Each video brought more and more tears to my eyes as I see families struggling with Autism. It is more important than ever to get this word out there. Only together can we help prevent and cure this. My love my heart and my prayers are with all of you, day in and day out I will think of your beautiful children and they love they have to give. Thank you for sharing your stories and know that you are not alone in your struggles.
posted by Chenani on 1/16/08 2:55: PM

God has chosen you to love and encourage this beautiful child. I also have a son with autism, he's 11 now. After many tearful days, fearing the worst, not knowing what the future would bring, he is enjoying friends, singing in chorus, and daily, making us laugh. I thank God for him.
posted by Dee Staley on 1/16/08 7:31: AM

This could have been the video of my 19 year old ausistic son. What a long and challenging, yet rewarding journey it's been! Especially with that hyper acute hearing. He is now relatiely high functioning and at the ever so amazing brookwood community - close by thank God -where as they say, The Spirit Soars. He was adopted as a normal healthy baby boy - God had other plans for us. Thanks for sharing.
posted by Julia Blackman on 1/15/08 11:27: AM

my son is also on the asd. we must stay strong and never stay silent. thank you.
posted by bree on 1/14/08 7:15: PM